“Knowing when to speak up”: A generative interview with Niels Stabingh

What happens when you realise the patterns you absorbed as a child – the ones that kept you alive – are the same ones now keeping you numb? In this conversation, Niels reflects on the ‘seed’ he planted during our learning journey: a commitment to finally feel patriarchy instead of just naming it, and theContinue reading ““Knowing when to speak up”: A generative interview with Niels Stabingh”

“Risking the loss of male approval to do the right thing”: A generative interview with Sam Walby

What does it mean to be a parent and partner in a world shaped by patriarchy? In this conversation, Sam reflects on the ‘seed’ he planted during our learning journey: a commitment to unlearning inherited patterns of male entitlement and emotional distance, and the slow but necessary work of tending this when it no longerContinueContinue reading ““Risking the loss of male approval to do the right thing”: A generative interview with Sam Walby”

Launching the first online men-only* learning journey

Over the past two years, Beyond Patriarchy has been holding men-only* learning journeys as one part of a wider inquiry around the question: What does it take to move beyond patriarchy — not just intellectually, but in the ways it shapes our relationships, bodies, and ways of organising? The next men-only* learning journey begins onlineContinueContinue reading “Launching the first online men-only* learning journey”